[M] GAW wrote:
[*M]Comet wrote: [M]y brother [M]isfits,
The last few days have been very troubling for all of us. Things have been done and said that really can't be undone. It takes 2 to fight but I feel that we end up looking like the bad guys.
We have so many different personalities here. Some of us are very vocal and some of us are quiet and shy. (Guess which one I am?) And we all have friends inside and outside of our squad. That's more important than the game itself.
I just wonder if things would be handled better if we did things a bit different? Of course hindsight is always 20/20. And I'm not in anyway, shape, or form questioning our leadership. In fact, the guys looking after this squad are the finest people I know. I'm just trying to come up with a solution so we can better handle things in the future.
So here is my proposal:
There are 2 specific scenarios that come to mind.
1.
I think things got blown out of proportion a bit because somebody reacted to the chat on WC regarding members leaving our squad and joining another. You all know...what just happened. Then we all just let the crap fly.
Should that maybe be brought to a "Damage Prevention Officer"? A person specific to stuff like that. Give him the info and let him handle it.
2.
A player has an issue with a member from another squad. Maybe that player from another squad was tank glitching for example. You either put it on the blacklist or you would give all the info to the "Damage Prevention Officer" and he handles it for you.
I want to know what everybody's thoughts are. Do you think we need to have policies in place regarding how people post and react to things that occur?
I think it would be a good idea if we had 2 Damage Prevention Officers(they don't have to be called that...they could be called something else...just the first name that came to mind.)
One would handle issues between squads. The other could handle internal issues. Maybe just one would do.
If this is something everyone would be interested in let me know. Respond on here or send me a pm.
It could be open to anyone who wants to do it. Even if you're not a current officer. You just need to have a level head and be objective.
I would be happy to apply for this job, but let's have an application process if we go this way.
Again guys, I'm only proposing this with the squad in mind. I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes, control anyone, or take over. You guys know me. I just care about this squad and our members.
What are your thoughts? We could have a squad meeting too about it also if there is enough interest.
Thanks everyone for your attenion.
Steve
I could see your idea having some merit. However, I think the big challenge will be to convince the rank and file that they should let the Damage Control Officer handle things for them in the heat of the moment. Not so sure that some of our personalities don't get some enjoyment from the heated banter. I am not one of those.
Then there will be issues of those having the problem not being pleased with how the DCO handled the situation.
I appeciate the recommendation walleye and Hulk, but I must decline. I want my limited time on dogfight to be fun. I prefer to avoid confrontations.
If Comet is willing to serve and the squad thinks the position is warranted, I would recommend accepting his offer. Quickly, before he gives it additional thought.
Been thinking about this a lot the last couple of Days. Around here our High Schools have implemented a Volunteer Program with the Kids. They call them Resolution Counselors. It's designed for Students to have a one on one with a mediator to resolve conflicts. It works.
I also agree that just having the word "Damage" in the Title is a set up for failure.
What about Liason Officer?
I don't know, rambling maybe, not sure what all took place but do know there were plenty of hurt feelings, anger, and a few other emotions. Personally I rarely go into the WC. So rare when I do I often am suspected as being an imposter.
It's just like the old chat rooms, no matter what, there will always be conflict and plenty of people eager to cause it.
I'm willing to go along with the idea and will support it and whoever takes on the role.
I just want to see us all get back to having fun, being respected and feared in the Skies!
Yeah it was a long rough first day back to work, but I really want to see us get back to who we really are.
My full support!!
Rip / Danny