When I first joined I was told to shoot at officers. After I passed my Eval's, there was a time when I would not shoot at a Misfits. I tried to only play as blue, or I would leave. It became harder and harder to find a game with "no" red Misfit. I do my best, if I come into a game that isn't NEW, I usually leave. I'm sure most of you have seen an Oof or two, maybe a YIKES or ZOIKES. Most of you bullies scare me, if a game is fresh and new, maybe I stay. It all depends if I am ready to fight a long battle, or just want to mow over the reds. It is a different game, if there is a Misfit on the other side. It changes something, I'm not here to blow smoke up anybodies ass, but the game truly changes when a Misfit shows up, if I have fought in a game trying to win and a Misfit shows up blue, it's like a reward. If in that same game, I fight hard and a red Misfit shows up, I always say "crap" the game just got a harder. I take it as a challenge.
At the end of the day I always ask my self, "will anything that happened today matter in 5 years?" Most of the time, the answer is no.
For most of us, this is our escape from reality, "No real world problems". Step back look at this from distance, It is really just a game.