Ok, after some feed back from others it seems as tho some leave and some don't. I however have chosen to stay and play against all reds, Misfits or not. I do pay for the game so the 7 minute wait isn't a problem for me. I just choose to play in the same game as my brothers, and friends. Last nite after the game that started all this, I entered close to 15 games and only 2 of them didn't have an [M]. You may have noticed me say, "nope can't play here either". I know it's no excuse not to play, but I would rather play with an [M] that's red than not with an [M] at all. I'm simply trying to play a game with my friends and family. With that being said, if I enter a game with an [M] as red I will ask if I can stay, the answer from the opposition, will decide my fate in that game.