Hey Comet
I noticed what you mentioned about your scenario. I hope it all works out for the best. Keep this one thing in mind should things take a turn for the unexpected.
I worked my tail off my entire life. Pulling a 15 hour day was a regualr for me for about 10 years. After 9/11 I was let go from my job. Tell you the truth I was very thankful that it happened for many reasons. I really needed a break and figured I would be back to work within a few months.
That's when many unexpected things happened in and around my life that ultimately brought on my permanent retirement. It just may be one of the best things that has happened to me. It took about two years of getting used to, but the time I got to spend with the family is priceless. I got to finally spend some quality time with my family and even helped raise my neice. That is the best thing to ever happen to me.
So don't get me wrong though. I don't live the lavish lifestyle that I did when I was working and now I live a very modest life. The trade off is more than worth it.
All my best wishes go out to you and your family. No matter what happens, life always seems to work itself out, even if you may experience some hard times. Just hang in there and I know you will, being the man that you are.
Cya and good luck my brotha!
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