Rabbit I agree with you on the droppers, happens too often now.
I was in a game yesterday where I was 3 vs. 1, and then 4 vs. 1 (why was the server against me?), and the reds weren't using team chat, so I saw their strategy. One guy kept saying he would be the fighter and the others be the bombers. So he would drop, but would deny it or just say hehe. Then he was encouraging a team mate to sneak. I told him that if they start to sneak, or drop, then I will start dropping too.
I don't mind sneaking, I see it as a tactic, however, don't do it when you outnumber the other team (either in numbers or rank/skill).
But I think the main attitude that's out there is the "win at all costs". Those players with that attitude don't care about being fair, they don't care about everyone enjoying the game, they are the ones that just care about winning, or having a good KDR. Bubi is a good example, he likes to drop and then have that advantage to pat his numbers, best for him if they are noobs, then if he gets shot down he will leave because it messes up his KDR. There was one game where he was trying to sneak, but I found him and started to shoot him. Rather than get shot down, after two or three hits he would auto destroy. Really pathetic in my view.
These guys with the "win at all costs" attitude will say this is a war game and there aren't rules, but what they forget is that it's a game, and should be fun for everyone.
Yes yesterday I was in a dogfight mission with a noob, and told him I wouldn't shoot him as it would just be a slaughter, and I would wait for a higher ranked player before I got back into the game. He thanked me for that, and went after the other noob. I really don't see the point, and honor, when there is no challenge.