While I have followed this debate with interest, and apart from generally agreeing that results will vary depending on local conditions, I don't feel qualified to have a strong opinion one way or the other about "laden" vs "unladen" flying. That's because I'm equally bad at either, both and everything else!
As such my own personal strategy if you can call it that is this: locate the nearest hail of bullets, fly into it with guns blazing and, whether I'm in one or more pieces when I come out the other side (usually the latter), hopefully I will have inflicted some damage to the opposing team en route (hopefully outweighing collateral damage unwittingly inflicted on teammates!)
In short, I'm just a plain old, no-finesse brawler, through and through. Sometimes this approach, again depending on circumstances, requires me to drop my bomb. Other times not. Regardless, it often requires me to put myself in harm's way (granted, mostly through my own stupidity), absorb immense quantities of bullets, and rack up staggering numbers of "deads" which explains my abysmal K/D ratio (about which I care not a rat's arse). Works for me! I leveled up to my current rank the other day, and within a day, day and a half (yay for long weekends!) I'm in the top 25 of that rank. If I obsessed over K/D I'd still be wallowing in the bowels of unexalted rankdom.
The only "skills" I reliably depend on is to keep getting up off the floor and coming back for more, and, once I commit to a game (barring factors beyond control like dropped connection and "real world" interruptions) to see it through to the end, for better or worse.
So come on all you finesse flyers, turn artists, prima donna bombers, chute show-offs and tank jockeys . . . let's BRAWL!
If you find me on the other side you'll experience the audacity of bopes . . . and remember, no matter how many times you knock me down, bopes springs eternal.
Oh, my only other takeway for me from this debate: If I ever find myself on the same side as B Strachan in a bombing game, you can be DAMN sure I will NOT, under ANY circumstances, drop my bomb! In fact, if possible I would even go so far as to steal other people's bombs, strap them to my plane until it's too heavy to fly, and roll it across the killing fields to park it by the opposing hangars, where I will invite B to bomb ME! That's what I'm talkin 'bout . . . team spirit!