Ryan the first thing I did was I talked to ppl first and became friends with them, and brought it up when I could. Then went to pms with it. Its better to have atlest 4 or 5 ppl to join right off the bat. Then you all can start recruiting members faster. The key is to grab them at a young rank, and make them recruits till you feel they are ready. Make them feel wanted and appreciated always. Make a chain of command and go from there. It can be a slow process, but well worth the effort.
The Misfits are still young, about 3 months old and have about 35 members. We want to keep it small for personal rasons. We treat each other like family and that works for us. Other squads have 90 pluse and that works for them. What I mean to say is grow as big or as small as you want. I have seen squads come in strong and fall apart fast, cause of the pilots that were recruited. So be carefull on who you bring in. Every squad has drama at one point or another. The key to stopping that or keeping it from happening is to pick the right pilots. A squad is not based on piloting skills. But more of personality!
M.o.M, Falcons, Wardogs, E and many others all are great squads. But just like us Misfits we all have fallouts. Ppl will leave and more will come. It all depends on how you deal with the drama that pops up.
I hope this helps you out bro. Good luck with your squad.