Pray and spray... it's worked thus far for me...
What you need to do is hunker down, some where dark preferably. Away from the usual distractions, drink plenty of fluids (Beer works well the cold kind), take a deep breath choose your map and hold your breath praying you'll be on the team that has the least chance of accomplishing the task the game has put before you..... builds character and skills.... no one got any good on the shirt tails of the likes of hulk, crocket, Mean, Fate, Namitt to and the Comets of dogfight. Don't let comet BS you, he Flys like a girl, he'll tell you something different, if his wife gives you some advice heed it she is awesome. Anyway you wanna get good? Drop the girlfriend now (you just get dropped later) plan on getting you behind shot to little tiny peace and in many months you'll learn how to cope with rage quiting and see some small improvement and a tinny bit of skill that will make you say to your self "Wait, did I just do that?" And when it's not your own hangers you accidentally bombed you know you are getting some where here in this game.
carry your bomb to the target, show your a top pilot by not camping be friendly and mostly have fun. It's not worth the social retardation you'll experience if you don't have fun here.......
Oh yes, McFate has real help with the post you can go to. Try that too
Welcome, hope to see you in the sky's