As a father, I really don't care what "provoked" my kids to have a tantrum. When it happened, they got whooped. When they were calm again, we talked it out. Now we may be dealing with a child. I know who has done it to my team, and I am simply being courteous by not naming them. They claim to be an adult with some worldly experience. I can't control anyone but myself. If I don't like how someone plays, I leave. I don't behave like a sneaky little shit and sabotage my own team. Most of us pay money to be here. I'm not gonna wreck your game because I got butt hurt over bullshit. I don't care about their story. I just want to establish if this is now a game play tactic.
Thulsa Doom wrote: It has been my experience as a Mother, that the "There I was just minding my own businesses" situation is rare. There are always two sides to a story. I agree the "softening" tactic is wrong and should not be adopted by anyone, yet I wold like to know what exactly provoked it.
I often find that the one who is better at feigning innocence, is just better practiced at hiding guilt.