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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #320769

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wow im glad i always have the money for the pizza lol But you know me viper my second account is there in wp and im as loyal to wp players as im loyal to everyone here in dogfight my squad is dogfight my friends are people in dog fight red or blue any squad a friend is a friend and even reds will be greeted with a hi or hello and even if you bring me down in the sky if i think you played well ill say ns or gs i learned that from the great mad rabbit some of my first few weeks here a little flattery and praise goes a long long way and i still remember to this day )

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pinkstar30 wrote: I gotta say I pretty much agree with bullet almost 100%, it depends on why they're leaving. Yes a few members of gi have 2nd accounts, they are allowed to join wp, dd , or bring it in gi also. Wp, dd, and gi are allies so no worries when a member goes for a visit or even decides to keep a wnd account in dd wp or gi. We know mostly who have 2nd accounts and why, and where they are. I also do think there's something shady going on around df the past few weeks. I lost a well trusted member not too long ago, and it hurt, really truly deep down hurt, so yes it was not on a trusted member but a good friend. Now I have another wanting to leave, sent me a pm saying he did. I replied to him told him to do what was best for him... but today is 4th day he hasn't signed on.. when before he was on all the time, so.. I'm kinda wondering if there's a hidden 2nd account floating somewhere.. it makes u stop and think. Now as far as coming back, well I guess that depends on how the situation of leaving was handled.


Your post struck a chord with me because WP has lost some trusted members during my tenure. While it is discouraging at the time the result is a renewed resolve to be loyal to the squad. You have to think of the other members and what they are seeing from within the ranks. I have had to tell myself that the squad isn't me, its all of us from the departing trusted member to the brand new guy or even the pending request to join. We are, for the most part, all just virtual people here but interact in a manner that does create real friendships. No sense in sacrificing your personal values and ideals in the matter of dealing with others just because you can do so with relative anonymity on the internet. As Popeye said, "I yam who I yam".

If I want to pretend im someone else im doing it with Mrs. Viper with me as the pizza delivery guy and she as the woman who doesn't have the money to pay, not here with a second account or some silly shady stuff. What a waste of time. :lol:

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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #320774

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I don't think any person can make member leave of his present squad till the member want to leave. As CC mentioned due to some reason they have to leave squad which they built. In df community members are in the age group of 20 and above and majority in between 35-55. So they are matured enough to take the decision. Can I make cc or bullet join NLR as being good friend of mine. No they won't till they themselves feel to leave Misfit and join any other squad. Like CC said that when he and bullet left their previous squad they joined Misfit. This doesn't mean that Misfit done something to get them in Squad.

Yes when you decide to leave squad you look for squad where you have friends and there is nothing wrong in it. Everyone is sticking where they find themselves comfortable.

It really hurts when some old member leave the squad but mind it old member will leave only when the member gets the feeling that he/she is not required in the squad or is ignored by the squad otherwise no one want to leave his first squad.
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #320897

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It's not like I have been with TFL for so long but I see what you mean Blue. If a player left our squad who I would think would stay to the end I guess that would bother me. If that player fully explained why they were leaving and had a good reason for doing so I would have to suck it up and wish them well.

I had a very good player that I was happy to take into TFL leave us to go help out Lil's new squad. He was a good friend here and always carried himself to the nth degree. I couldn't have asked for anything more of him. He sent me a pm explaining it all. Yesss I lost a brother that I sure as heck would have loved to stay with us but I gave him what he deserved.

I wished him all the best in his choice. I think and hope I have taught him a thing or two along the way. Should he now pass that knowledge along to others? Well that would be my pleasure. Well as long as he gives me credit for it :woohoo: jk.

Everything that I have passed along to my squadmates, with the exception of one or two things, I am very happy to share with anyone else. I in fact often send the same information to any player that I see could use the help as long as I like the way that player carries him/herself.

I would rather all players here in DF had the same knowledge and skill of game play where the better player comes out on top. It goes back to the days of my brother and I going at it in video games throughout the years. I would always share whatever tips I picked up along the way with him. Think I got the same from him? Heck no! Little sneaky rat!!! Lol
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #320917

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Blue, I'm sure you know all of my answers, because you reflect them so well as one of NLR's squadron officers!
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321014

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I left MISFITS for personal reasons and was straight up from the beginning. I've been part of MISFITS for almost 2 years,made friends and hope I earned their trust. After I left I have never felt so alienated and unwanted. " Cue Ball who" , I believe was the comment made by a squad mate with a big number of thank yous from squad members. I'll keep my side of the street clean because that's my style. As far as my time in MISFITS, well that will stay with just me and anything siad otherwise would be a lie. No sqaud is perfect, but reading the last two pages of MISFITS posts will show you how not to let a sqaud member go.
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321039

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Cue friendship remains for ever. There may be ups and downs in every friendship.

First squad is and will always remain with us. Just remember the good times you enjoyed as Misfit and the friends you made there. I am sure they’ll be there along with whole DF community in hours of need. Friends are made for ever and along our friend’s happiness lies our happiness.

It’s not easy to let an old squad mate go and it’s only the friendship which comes out in forms of words to express the bonding. Some words may be harsh too but that’s too out of love.

The vacuum created when one friend/member left take time to heal. Both sides have to understand other’s point of view and should not take it otherwise. It’s patience testing time, at least one, who cares for his friend, should keep his calm.

Let the friend empty all his anger and bad feelings and make space for your viewpoint, then pour your love and affection as a heart full of anguish will only overflow whatever comes in.

Never let any friend go from your life as you are fortunate to have one. Keeping adding more into your life, you’ll be needing them at all times to share bad times and multiplying happiness.

What we say reflects what we are, so one should post only good for their friends. If we can’t say good things about anyone we should avoid writing bad.
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321250

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THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF THE WAY THING SHOULD BE DONE AND A LOT OF PEOPLE SHOULD LEARN FROM TREPPO AS A EXAMPLE OF WHAT SHOULD BE DONE SHOWING FINE LEADERSHIP AND GOOD FRIENDSHIP I SAY AILRED TREPPO CLASSY ACT SIR
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321257

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I can only add you gotta understand the art off wiggling to join our squad. Hence why there's only a few of us..... :)
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321271

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Dognamitt wrote: THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF THE WAY THING SHOULD BE DONE AND A LOT OF PEOPLE SHOULD LEARN FROM TREPPO AS A EXAMPLE OF WHAT SHOULD BE DONE SHOWING FINE LEADERSHIP AND GOOD FRIENDSHIP I SAY AILRED TREPPO CLASSY ACT SIR


Thank you Dognamitt for considering my attitude...

I really like making friends here in DF, that's what I do in WC, in the air, into the Fórum: chat, share, laugh and more...
And that includes to really know who the other is...

I've been meeting many of you in this 10 months here, some are good friends, some even better...

I think this makes the difference between some isolated games and this kind of games: I speak Spanish, Italian, English and I've been learning Portuguese and some French in here... just an amazing place to waste our time ;) ...despite there are some bad guys, for sure.

It's only a game... just a game... but behind any device you'll find great people...


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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321291

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What?? Who is leaving me now????


How do I take it??


I cry nonstop for a week!!!!!








Then I go on a DF RAMPAGE!!!!! Some players know what I’m talking about.























After all that; I do my nails . LOL








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Cue Ball wrote: I left MISFITS for personal reasons and was straight up from the beginning. I've been part of MISFITS for almost 2 years,made friends and hope I earned their trust. After I left I have never felt so alienated and unwanted. " Cue Ball who" , I believe was the comment made by a squad mate with a big number of thank yous from squad members. I'll keep my side of the street clean because that's my style. As far as my time in MISFITS, well that will stay with just me and anything siad otherwise would be a lie. No sqaud is perfect, but reading the last two pages of MISFITS posts will show you how not to let a sqaud member go.


Cue you may want to go back and read that post in question you know the one that says Cue who? I think you will see why he got 5 thank you's most of that post he was talking about his son.
The thank you's were not for the Cue Who, believe what you will but 5 thanks isn't a large number.
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321408

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"How do you take it if member's say I'm leaving?"

Well Blue.....If they are right, and you áre.......you are always welcome to join M.O.M :P
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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321433

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Acegirl wrote:

What?? Who is leaving me now????


How do I take it??


I cry nonstop for a week!!!!!





Acegirl,your a class act.






Then I go on a DF RAMPAGE!!!!! Some players know what I’m talking about.























After all that; I do my nails . LOL








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Cue Ball wrote: I left MISFITS for personal reasons and was straight up from the beginning. I've been part of MISFITS for almost 2 years,made friends and hope I earned their trust. After I left I have never felt so alienated and unwanted. " Cue Ball who" , I believe was the comment made by a squad mate with a big number of thank yous from squad members. I'll keep my side of the street clean because that's my style. As far as my time in MISFITS, well that will stay with just me and anything siad otherwise would be a lie. No sqaud is perfect, but reading the last two pages of MISFITS posts will show you how not to let a sqaud member go.






CUE DON’T WORRY THINGS WILL BE FINE



Deep down you are all friends, its normal for this things to happened, none of you should take what has happened to heart.




Just Look at the pretty BLUE LIGTH.


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How you take it if member's say I'm leaving? 9 years 7 months ago #321636

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Hola señores lo más importante es salir con
Dignidad,y cuando se está saber ser parte de
Lo que representa ese escuadrón.y sobre todo
Tomarlo como una familia de amigos que juegan
Juegan y se divierten juntos en el juego.Lo más bonito es descubrir nuevos amigos.ojalá muchos estuviesen cerca de mi para quedar con ellos,la amistad siempre debe permanecer y el
Juego fue el vínculo para para encontrar esos nuevos amigos. :)



Hello Gentlemen are the most important to date
Dignity, and when it is know to be part of
Representing the escuadrón.y especially
Take it as a family of friends playing
 and have fun together in the most beautiful juego.Lo is to discover new amigos.ojalá !! many were near me to stay with them, friendship must remain and
Link to the game was to find new friends. :)
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