I don't know if this will be taken seriously or not, but I was wondering How yall control anger? I seem to have a bit of a short yet wet fuse. It takes a lot to light it but once it's lit I blow up. I know some of yall know at least one of my blow ups. And it's not pretty, I have almost been banned twice, that's how sever it gets. I have had problems in the past with anger control. I simply can't control it. I have an attitude in real life that can get out of hand sometimes, but I don't want to be like that. It's gotten so bad, I literally knocked about a foot of bark clean off a tree with 1 punch.

How do yall control ur tempers? Whether it's in game temper flare or a real life problem like me.
I just need help and if anyone is willing to help it will be greatly appreciated.

tKestrel wrote: I don't know if this will be taken seriously or not, but I was wondering How yall control anger? I seem to have a bit of a short yet wet fuse. It takes a lot to light it but once it's lit I blow up. I know some of yall know at least one of my blow ups. And it's not pretty, I have almost been banned twice, that's how sever it gets. I have had problems in the past with anger control. I simply can't control it. I have an attitude in real life that can get out of hand sometimes, but I don't want to be like that. It's gotten so bad, I literally knocked about a foot of bark clean off a tree with 1 punch.

How do yall control ur tempers? Whether it's in game temper flare or a real life problem like me.
I just need help and if anyone is willing to help it will be greatly appreciated.

Erm, for me the best remedy is a big large spliff, then life is all Rosie again.

If imdidntnhave a spliff, punching walls is very therapeutic

Well, i start off by screaming a lot, then i get really quiet and go into try-hard mode. I start cursing loudly, and either throw things or punch things, depending on what's next to me. Then i just stop, my face gets beet-red, and i let out an unearthly shriek that scares the $*** out of anyone near me. I finish by sinking my head down between my knees And refusing to move for several hours.

Yeah, I'm not taking this seriously, btw.

Sometimes there is no controlling your anger.. so better to channel it. For me I either release it out on a heavy bag or else split firewood with an axe. Either way it allows me to blow off some steam without ever harming anyone nor breaking bones in my hands (which can happen from punching walls & trees)

Hey hey I've been known to pop.off once in a bit it can't be helped. But for anger management I drink alot when I fly and some nice carrot tops here and there don't hurt either. Usually when there's a jerk in the game I just send him.hugs and kisses lol. But I love being a.smart a@@ when they say something I just turn around on them. Nothing is more funny to me. One time there was a Guy being a smart a@@ he got so turned around he took himself out with this statement hey I love bl@@@@ goats be hey that's me. His statement was supposed to be I net ypi love black@@@@ goats. When everyone laughed at him he left. So this ones for you goat boy who ever you are. Bahhhh bahhhh

Control?? I think you mean channel and harness it...oh and have a lot of spare keyboard shelves I'm on number 8. They keep ending up in my lap??

Hi tkes. In my opinion, u already know The answer... When i get angry, usually i do things what i like, but much more intense, forgettin about The other things... Try to disciplin your agenda, and enjoy these actions while u r doing it.

Auld

tKestrel....

You should PM me and I'm available anytime my friend.....I'm always available to help in anyway my friend.

when I get angry I don't normally cuss or throw a fit.. but if its a physical fight ya better watch out. Most of the time if someone makes me mad or lies to me I bottle up the anger until the person makes me mad again! I call it my Anger Grenade!

or Copenhagen that fixes everything

I don't get angry but if I do....i normally keep quiet....go home and wrestle with my stuffed animals.....and mostly I also scream....or else I take a ride and listen to some ABBA classics and smile to myself.....or I phone my friends and scream and cut the call

WHO SAYS WE CONTROL OUR ANGER?

Kill reds, must kill reds. Agggggggggggggggggggggg kill reds, kill em all. Agggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

Davy Crockett wrote: WHO SAYS WE CONTROL OUR ANGER?

Kill reds, must kill reds. Agggggggggggggggggggggg kill reds, kill em all. Agggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

Thanks to God...i never had u as a red ever! Always @ blue, u.......never red.....!!!!

I guess it all depends on what has made me mad...
If it's the game i whine to Whip
If it's life issue I whine to Whip, and maybe clean like crazy
If it's Whip I keep it to myself and let it fester into an issue to be brought up at a date and time of my choice

I am selling a book titled "How to control your anger", wrote by a guy... let me see his name... hmmm... the cover is rotten... first page... hmmm... some blood stains on first page... I can't tell you the writer's name, but... let me see...


Edit (Now talking seriously): Kes, I suffer from ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), combined with (very) high impulsivity. You should go to a psichiatrist, maybe you are on the same boat.

Turn it into something productive. Slice watermelons/fruit with a sword and eat it for dinner.
I don't do that though because I eat steak and not pears. Most of the time when I get mad (at games, I never really get mad at real things) if I am alone, I scream like a banshee. If I am really mad, I will do the most destructive thing of all. Break a pencil. You know the great pencil break of February? That was me after I downloaded Flappy Bird...

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Great thread Kestrel! I am famous for my anger issues at work, hehe. So I harnessed it and turned it into entertainment!
Check out my music video.....forgive my singing, I dont care.......dont get me mad....

Oh my temper.... I've spent my whole life learning to control it, and I occasionally still can't. I'm very lucky that it's never put me in jail, although a few times I probably should have gone. I guess the only thing that works for me is a very keen realization that once I let go, no one knows where and when it's going to stop. I've certainly NEVER lost my temper here in this semi fantasy world. I got a bit aggravated during my departure from my one and only squad, but that was more of an annoyed and aggravated state... Not anger.

Generally when I lose my temper it causes real and often expensive consequences, where if I keep my head and channel my anger into trying to make the other guy the one who suffers, I usually do ok.

If all else fails, read the Sun Tzu.... That always makes me feel a bit better, or gives me a plan to work on feeling better.

Whenever I get mad regardless of the reason I take the shotgun, find some jugs or bottles and fill them up with different things and just blow it all to pieces or I go hunting....either way always manages to calm me down.

Run.... Run till you can no longer run....

How I control my anger?... I usually take a nice long shower to cool down... If I can''t... Well, I drink water... Lots of it...

2Storm2[BB-1L] wrote: Run.... Run till you can no longer run....

That'd be about a minute and a half for me... If I paced myself.