@ Sapphire

I'm having a little trouble with Photobucket at the moment, so your banner will be delayed for the time being.

Nevertheless, let's welcome our new member to the Republic! We're happy to have you, Sapphire!

Nou problem Luna

*420* wrote: Hey Luna, I think it's like when a boy would poke you or run up and pull your hair during recess. They liiiike uuu oooooooooooo

It's funny you mention that -- I've been working on the psychology behind why men abuse women today and get away with it.

Think about it. As children, girls are taught "Well, if he's teasing you or something -- he just likes you!"

In fact, it's burned into our heads -- even I flirted that way as a elementary school student (and scored my first kiss behind the playground trees ).

However, what if we fast forward say...13 years? We're always hearing of women being abused by (weak) men -- but the women always come back to them. In another scenario, I'm sure all of us with Facebooks have that beta-male friend who always makes statuses whining how "OMG WHY DO ALL DA JERKS GET ALL DA GIRLS AN NONE FOR DA NICE GUY!?"

It seems like people neglect to remember the "If he hurts you, he likes you" way of thinking. Though, most people don't think of this because -- that was elementary school.

Or was it? What if this is the way of thinking that has caused so much physical abuse?



And that's where I'm at right now. Finding that correlation between the two.


Also; I'm tired of seeing "nice guys" whine about how they're always being friendzoned. It's simple. This is the logic behind a "nice guy":

>Be nice to a girl
>Do favors for the girl
>Now since I did something, I'm expecting something in return. Like a date.


Nice guys are typically self centered because they want something back for their deeds. And they seem to disregard the fact that friends usually do nice things for each other in exchange for something. Hence why they're friendzoned to begin with.


So if you're a guy and you feel like a "nice guy". Stop. Cut that out. Instead, choose to be kind; but assertive. Being kind is to not expect anything. However, being confident & assertive is also important as well so you establish yourself as a leader or someone of importance.




Anyways -- that's my bit. Carry on with conversation.

SlendermanThanks that was the longest post I've ever seen

Slenderman wrote:

*420* wrote: Hey Luna, I think it's like when a boy would poke you or run up and pull your hair during recess. They liiiike uuu oooooooooooo

It's funny you mention that -- I've been working on the psychology behind why men abuse women today and get away with it.

Think about it. As children, girls are taught "Well, if he's teasing you or something -- he just likes you!"

In fact, it's burned into our heads -- even I flirted that way as a elementary school student (and scored my first kiss behind the playground trees ).

However, what if we fast forward say...13 years? We're always hearing of women being abused by (weak) men -- but the women always come back to them. In another scenario, I'm sure all of us with Facebooks have that beta-male friend who always makes statuses whining how "OMG WHY DO ALLt DA JERKS GET ALL DA GIRLS AN NONE FOR DA NICE GUY!?"

It seems like people neglect to remember the "If he hurts you, he likes you" way of thinking. Though, most people don't think of this because -- that was elementary school.

Or was it? What if this is the way of thinking that has caused so much physical abuse?



And that's where I'm at right now. Finding that correlation between the two.


Also; I'm tired of seeing "nice guys" whine about how they're always being friendzoned. It's simple. This is the logic behind a "nice guy":

>Be nice to a girl
>Do favors for the girl
>Now since I did something, I'm expecting something in return. Like a date.


Nice guys are typically self centered because they want something back for their deeds. And they seem to disregard the fact that friends usually do nice things for each other in exchange for something. Hence why they're friendzoned to begin with.


So if you're a guy and you feel like a "nice guy". Stop. Cut that out. Instead, choose to be kind; but assertive. Being kind is to not expect anything. However, being confident & assertive is also important as well so you establish yourself as a leader or someone of importance.




Anyways -- that's my bit. Carry on with conversation.

Be nice to Everyone!

I am a "nice" guy. However, I show confidence. The more you show confidence, the more you feel confident.

Yes, I have missed that opportunity with the "perfect woman". I look at it as if she has missed the experience of knowing me.

Ms. Luna and her "lady" friends are sharing with you guys of her age how they feel. Take heed and listen. Read their words several times, before you respond.

These ladies have class. You are lucky to learn from them.

U got UR first kiss in elementary school?! My mom still doesn't let me date. Ughhh

Here's your banner, Sapphire!



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420,

You really let the Duck down.

??

Duckwing1 wrote: 420,

You really let the Duck down.

Hey duck I saw you at the lake today
Stole mym kill
I was greeting ready to shot him when you took him by the legs and drowned him

And I was just about to destroy an old bent up Russian satellite. Darn it!

Thank's, Slender.

Haha, you're 12, Vortex. I wonder why. My mom doesn't want me dating either. I ignore that.

I couldn't resist.

Deserved on my part.

I know, everyone gets to do it but me though...
And i have ideas in mind. (as far as who)

Paul Mantz, Jr. wrote:
Be nice to Everyone!

I am a "nice" guy. However, I show confidence. The more you show confidence, the more you feel confident.

Yes, I have missed that opportunity with the "perfect woman". I look at it as if she has missed the experience of knowing me.

Ms. Luna and her "lady" friends are sharing with you guys of her age how they feel. Take heed and listen. Read their words several times, before you respond.

These ladies have class. You are lucky to learn from them.

Ah, you misread what I'm saying. To be "nice" is to do good deeds -- but to expect something in return. To be "kind" is to simply give selflessly.

So according to you; you would be a kind man. See what I'm getting at?

Luna6 wrote:

I couldn't resist.

I lol'd heartily.

CalvinIsAwesome wrote: Thank's, Slender.

Haha, you're 12, Vortex. I wonder why. My mom doesn't want me dating either. I ignore that.

Most mothers are that way. While I don't think anyone should take "high school dating" very seriously (a.k.a no planning your entire lives together, that's ignorant); it is a prime time to date around and figure out what characteristics you like in the opposite sex.


You will all see one day when you graduate that all these people who wasted their time planning their life are ultimately "broken" for a good month or two. Sometimes an entire year. Sometimes it's enough to stop them from college. Either way it's a definite crusher on the psyche & confidence levels.

Just watch yourself and don't take life too seriously right now. Focus on school and getting a good GPA. That's all that truly matters right now.

Paul Mantz, Jr. wrote: I am a "nice" guy. However, I show confidence. The more you show confidence, the more you feel coinfident.

Confidence is one of the four "key c's". "Confidence"is key,"Collaboration" is key, "consideration" is key, and finally "Consolidation" is key.

Well, I had a girlfriend once, if that's what the term would be, ( it was the end of 4th through the first half of 5th grade, when I left Beaumont, so it wasn't actually really dating, but it was somewhat serious for 4th graders )
But though i've got my eye on a special someone, i'm biding my time, after blurting out my feelings for her on the bus as we returned from a choir/ band trip to schlitterbahn in Galveston, in front of maybe 60 other choir people, never since have I been so bold, just too timid nowadays.
Lol, if only I could have the senseless blind, not caring who heard lovs that I had then

I don't think 4th grade counts.

Yeah... I think it's legitimate after 10th grade.

Even then, those are rarely genuine.

Lol

Why Duck . On a different note, I have Monday and Tuesday off, so if anyone would like to contact me on those days to schedule some flight times......that would be awesome

*420* wrote: Why Duck . On a different note, I have Monday and Tuesday off, so if anyone would like to contact me on those days to schedule some flight times......that would be awesome

When can we fly?

Right now for a lil bit

*420* wrote: Right now for a lil bit

Ok I'll be there

K, heading out now

Just forced to watch MLP cause i'm watching my 3 year old sister.


KILL. ME. NOW. PLEASE!

(forgot my manners)

I would not consider myself a brony, but I would say I dont have anything against the show. I don't plan on becoming one cause it sounds like a cult and I've got to much on my mind anyway.

Wonder how well icepicks gauge out eyes

isaactheman wrote: Just forced to watch MLP cause i'm watching my 3 year old sister.


KILL. ME. NOW. PLEASE!

(forgot my manners)

But I'm a brony bro