Dolt wrote: it doesn't work to paste pics into messages here.
You don't paste the picture into the message. You need to use the menu line over the smiley faces. There are two green symbols with something that looks like o-o under them. Click on the left of these two symbols and you'll see a white empty slot appear with http:// at the beginning. Paste your photo link in there, and press the "insert" button to the left of the line. That should do it.
You first need to have uploaded the photos to photobucket (iphone), or Picasa or Skydrive to make them accessible. Right click on the uploaded photos, copy the URL and paste it into the white picture-link slot in your message.